Whats with the attacks?

I have been talking to those who oppose protecting the sanctity of marraiage online on myspace and facebook and one thing I don't understand is the constant hatred that I am faced with. It is unfortunate, although I do enjoy knowing that I am on the right side of the argument, those that I talk to always seem to resort in telling me that I am "judging", "hating", or "taking away the rights of gays". I alway rebuttle by letting them know that I do not hate homosexuals then re-emphasize that it is not the person who I hate but what they are practicing. Also that the only thing by passing this proposition that will be takin away is what was there since the beginning of time and that is the correct definition of marriage. NO rights, priveleges or respect will be takin away from domestic partnerships who are commited and define a relationship however they want to. So those that may come accross this blog please don't resort to making yourself look bad but rather make your point and debate like a normal human beings.